This morning B14 told me that he wasnt feeling well
so Ive given him the day off home schooling with instructions to stay on the couch or in his bed
On a Friday morning I take D4 to the meeting place to give him to his father for the weekend
We got there slightly early
no sight of his dad
waited 15 minutes
went to church (nearest place where I could use a phone)
rang his dad
who was surprised to hear from me
he reckoned that because I went away last weekend I had said I wanted this weekend
I have 1 weekend in 4
last weekend should have been mine but because I chose to go and see Cliff I had forgone my weekend
I never said anything about D4 making it up with me
I had after all chosen to go away
The ex said well if D4 wants to come Ill come and get him
LOL maybe I should have asked D4???
The mind wonders what he would have said
I told the ex that he was ready and as always I know that its good for D4 to spend time with his dad
I told the ex that I wasnt going back to the meeting place again
Id already been there
hed have to come and get him from church
he agreed
While we were waiting D4 and I played with the train tracks
our church has a play group as well as a church
it was a nice time together before we separated for the weekend
2 comments:
You were far more generous than me! I would either have told D4 that Daddy said he could stay with me because we had missed last weekend together OR I would have asked D4 what he wanted to do and if his dad heard him say he wanted to stay with me - well he would just have had to accept it!!!
thanks Heather :)
Meg B14 reckons I should have asked D4 too :)
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